thank you all for your replies. She will be taking all of her own furniture etc, but im not sure if that is of any help. I have thought about it and I think there a couple of things bothering me. a) The new room is way bigger, seems like I will be lost in it. b) I will have moved from the furtherest away room to the room closest to the entrance door, strangely, it feels as if I don't have time to think before going in. And also it feels like it is now only one step away from her booting me out. It's all so complex isn't it, to be so agitated by simply moving to another room!!