((Maven)),
I had an ex whom used to mention things about me which he new I was sensitive about. We were only 1 year part, but he appeared at least 10 years older..One day I blurted out "Have you EVER looked in the mirror?". Him:dumb stare. Me: "I never mention your appearence or weight, or anything negative about your appearence. I would appreciate the same consideration. Also if you would like my hair to belonger, YOU can PAY for extensions!". Guys just do not get it.