Dear Friend,
I can certainly relate to your stories about stupid ( sorry for
speaking plainly) therapists. Just because they can graduate and do the school/lab work doesn't mean they
have the love/guts it takes be truly help someone. My experience tells me that there is only 1 good therapist out
of 7-10. That doesn't mean a few of them aren't good for other people but that they aren't suited for my personality.
One of the problems we have as patients is that many of us are exceptionally intelligent and also have a really good
insight into ourselves which makes us even harder to
work with. I'm starting to see someone new tomorrow to help deal with the death of my Borderline Personality Disorder sister's life and recent death. Who knows if he is a good match but I'm certainly hopeful because I need the
relief from the "dis-ease" I'm experiencing. One thing I do like about this guy is that he is in AA and has the same foundation of beliefs I do. Of course, he will also call me
on my BS quicker than most. Anyway, hang in there and don't be afraid to be demanding because this is your mental health and your time!
Best of everything,
Anniego