Witch is why you can't help out if you get emotionally involved then your feelings of anger make your words. Instead. Think about her words she called him her soulmate. In the end of his life he's going to have an excuse for losing everything. He fell prey to alcohol. Instead get him proper help. I guarantee he will want the help too he needs help to get there. That's when you have to stop enabling the alcoholic and put a stop to the addiction with help from family and friends and AA. And Alonon.