First off I would like to say thank you for you reply. I do need help, I could not sleep, I get mad just thinking about it, more each time, I know I will not hit her or get violent, my mother didnt raise me that way, but the anger and pain does hurt me, can you give me some more names of these types of groups, I will look in my area to see if they are available to me, if not , you said Crisis management groups right? I ll see what I can find. Thank you dearly, im in tears right now