I had to ask mine to help me wind down at the end. I went at least two years of sometimes leaving in horrible or dangerous states from the work we were doing. It wasn't until I read a post on here once about a t helping someone reground at the end of a session that I thought to ask my t. I think that's pretty bad because she's been a t for 30 years and it was irresponsible to let me go in the states I was in. She's a bit more sensitive to it now. Otherwise she's been a good t