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Originally Posted by henrydavidtherobot
By the way, I should add that I am a top notch, heavily involved in my community, have lots of habits, and develop my art on a regular basis so I am not really in need of using this time to better myself :/
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Originally Posted by henrydavidtherobot
I feel so so disposable. Everyone seems to want me as a "maybe if I find nothing better to do".
The worst part is, he was my last chance. 
I'm not attracted to anyone else in my city. I'm looking at a non romantic and sexless year ahead of me.
I have no one to talk to.
How do I accept that I have to be alone and watch everyone else happy together and deal with everyone pressuring me to find someone and get laid. . |
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Originally Posted by henrydavidtherobot
Also, I feel like having a sig other helps balance me and build a routine. I don't want to be all by myself every weekend night, but in a college town people who aren't dating you only want to go out and drink. I drink less and am safer when I'm in a relationship. I also like having some one to protect me because rape and abuse towards women is really common on a college campus.
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Is everyone 'pressuring you' to get laid, due to the statement, about another year sans romance and sex? What made, this guy your 'last chance'? Last chance, to be part of an on-campus couple for your senior year? Last chance, to have someone, there, during the final year of partying, to protect you? Yes, on-campus assaults, are prevalent on college campuses, and they can be very damaging. I get the notion, of wanting a steady bf/significant other, yet, was this guy, really the end all and be all to the fish, at your school?