A total personality change is definitely cause to blame the medication. I'm talking about a night and day change. He even admits to noticing that he doesn't act himself anymore. Another side note....you aren't supposed to consume alcoholic beverages while on Zoloft, because as we all know, it is a depressant. So, explain to me why when he does drink, he turns into the man I knew before the drugs? This is another reason why I put it to blame. He told me he drinks sometimes so that he's able to feel like himself again....it's all so confusing to me honestly....perfect example: tonight, we went boating with family, he was so distant from me until he had a few drinks in....then it was like a total transformation. He was giving me sweet looks, putting his arms around me, kissing me, talking to me about how happy he was, and laughing like I hadn't heard him laugh in months. About an hour ago, he started to come down off of the buzz, and he is right back to everything I've been talking about. It's literally like Jekyll and Hyde. Almost heart wrenching because I knew it was short lived. I'm crying as I write this because I knew every second he was being himself that it wasn't going to stay. I hope that I am expressing all if this in a way that someone can understand...