when she loaned you the money, it helped you out, right? help yourself out now by paying her back and detaching from all of this anger and being pissed off. you did tell her that you would repay her by a certain time and that should be taken care of.

borrowed money, between friends and families, generally causes problems.

be thankful that you're in your own place, have a job and actually have the resouces to pay her back. the longer it takes for her to get the money back, the more anger and upheaval is coming your way....trust me.......it happened to me recently and a friendship was really harmed over my not being paid back in a timely manner. i've moved on but won't be loaning any more money...not that i have enough to loan in the first place.