How did I provoke him? He kept trying to pinch my nipples (through my nightgown), and we'd been discussing the video. The girls in the video were very pretty and showing their breasts, and I told him I wasn't like the girls in the video, who were playful and inviting of being touched and groped. We wrestle sometimes, in fun, but I wasn't saying I wasn't those girls because they're pretty and I'm not (frankly, when I lose this weight, I won't be too bad, actually!); I was saying I wasn't inviting him to touch me that way (my nipples are a little too sensitive sometimes). Then he laughed and said, "That's for sure!" laughed again and went to bed. I don't see how I "provoked" him.