Gloria,
You are the second person to tell me about this cycle of manuiplation and that was my spouse. I am trying not to get into anymore of this happenings. I keep to myself what is said because it a good communication between my daughter and I now. My mother has been this way for years. She has been so used to doing this to me or anyone else. I am doing good so far. I and my daughter are enjoying our company and my new granddaughter.
Thank you
Cathy56