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Many of them. So people create accounts and then leave? I did not record when those messages were sent before deleting them, but I am sure not too long ago - may be a few months ago, tops (I only opened the account in late 2012). So... these men have found their dream girl in such a short time? all of them? Sounds weird, since people keep complaining about the ineffectiveness of online dating (granted, there is self-selection into complaining - those who are happy with online dating do not complain online - they are busy enjoying the results of dating). Ok, so maybe one or two have quickly found partners, but what about the rest? Why do people delete the profiles - the profile is just sitting there for free, so why delete it?
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At the same time, why leave a profile your not using up? Especially if it has all your personal information on it, pictures of you, etc. It might be the stigma of dating sites to, because a lot of people would be embarrassed if someone they knew found them on a dating site.
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I do get what you are saying, but I think in this case it was just horrible writing.
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Your probably right. I cant write for ****, so ill trust your judgment over mine on this any day.
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female girl" reminds me of "male goat's milk" - many years ago I saw the word combination "goat milk" translated into a language that has different words for male and female goats (sort of like bull and cow) as "male goat's milk". Then you want to ask the translator/writer: "really?.."
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Im getting off topic. Cant only female goats produce milk? Why would the male ones be able to? Maybe i just didnt understand what you were saying...
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I figured out why I hate those with such passion:
1) Some muscle definition is good, but more than that does look kind of dumb.
2) Spending that many hours in the gym is kind of very dumb.
3) Men should not spend so much time on their appearance.
4) Often, these ripped guys are also waxing their hair off their torsos, and I happen to simply hate the look of waxed torsos - somebody on here mentioned that waxed genitals look prepubescent - well at least they look prepubescent which is still real - waxed torsos do not even look prepubescent)
5) What seems present in this kind of ripped look is insecurity, anxiety, and low self esteem. If a guy does not feel secure enough "as is", but feels that he needs to spend hours at the gym to look good enough to date... then I would not be interested in meeting with him in the first place.
To be sure I do not offend anybody: if an athlete is muscular, it is perfectly fine - they train for performance. They do not train to get a ripped look. And, one can tell - there are very special things about true athletes, a very special drive, and it is obvious when a person possesses it. Also, a body that is naturally muscular - as sometimes happens though not frequently - looks different from a body that has a ripped look due to steroids, whey shakes (yuck!, I imagine) and hours at the gym, so I am not against people who are naturally muscular or are athletes. Or, against men who train in the Army. It is only guys who want to get a ripped look to impress girls that are so pathetic and boring.
It is a chicken and egg though: who is to blame? who started it? did this craze start because girls started to expect a ripped look? or did it start because boys decided that they would fare better with a ripped look? whose fault was it?
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Maybe getting that ripped look and obsessing over that is kind of like women shopping, doing their hair, coordinating outfits, etc. People set an ideal in their head for themselves and try to live up to it. For a while i was into working out as a way to deal with stress, and started chasing different 'looks'. I think its natural, especially with how much the media has to do with everyone's self image.
I dont really have a preference when it comes to men and whether or not they have hair on their chests and genitals, but i prefer women to be waxed. Ive never thought a women who waxed looked like a little girl. Either way i like it more because its more functional.
You wouldnt want a man to work out? I understand not wanting him to work out excessively, i guess, but if he just
likes it, and likes how he looks for himself, I dont see a problem.
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...OK, finally I got it - I am slow, but not completely dumb:
In the profile, there was a legend assisting me in identifying the profile owner on the picture. The legend said - "Look at the picture of two equally prominent men again and notice the one in a blue shirt - that is ME!"
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Ahahahahah. Sounds like laziness to me.