All very good advise here nice job, my place is a mess but when it gets bad enough i always get Buisy and start cleaning. Wow hard out there when both spouses have adhd and add wow I can imagine my kids have adhd I have adhd and my wife thinks her symptoms are from living with me for 24 years. Mean time it's hard to keep organized. The best thing for us is make it safe to live for the kids and safe for them and us to eat. The rest we don't sweat,what for arguing for that. No way. Good luck everyone