The thing i have finally decided. Since me and my dad always lock horns over things. Well that and me being 28 and all. I wanted to stay home save money and buy/do whatever I want when I start working again. But I do not seeing a very peaceful and calm future. When my mother comes back from vacation I am gonna talk to her and ask her for help picking/buying a house when I have money in my bank account and an income flowing. Then i can do whatever I want in the confines of my own place, and my father cannot ***** at me anymore. I think it will make the relationship we have much healthier. That and him being retired now I think is adding extra strain because he is home a lot more now. I think it is time to quit living in a fantasy world for me. My mom also has money saved up for me so I will be able to use that as a down payment and the money I save up in my bank account will be for paying the house payment and bills etc. I think it is a good plan and I thank you all for being a great and awesome sounding board for me to come and post things so I can read them later lol.