I do the same thing, tealBumblebee, although I do have a couple of friends that I can get up in their faces when they say something stupid. But it's a lot harder with my mum and my sister. They just don't get it and it infuriates me. And I don't want to try to educate them, I don't have the patience for that most of the time, because I'm trying so hard not to see red. It's so frustrating.