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Aug 05, 2013, 06:09 AM
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Member Since: May 2013
Location: UK
Posts: 18
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Thanks so much for your replies.
Update: We are currently still talking 'as friends', pretty much everyday. However, the past 2 days i have started to sense a funny awkwardness with in me and also when i talk to her. It's as if we don't have as much in common anymore sometimes. Like we are now forcing a friendship. I find that strange as we always have so many topics to talk about. It's almost as if we are trying to find some sort of balance. It FEELS like we need to cut contact for while or space things out. I think we are both scared underneath and not saying anything because we feel that we will drift and that would be the end of the connection. It's a bit of a mess tbh .She is going away in 2 weeks for a month, maybe which will be the break. Either way it really hurts to think we will not be friends.
As for your comments on trying it even though i'm not physically attracted, i still feel this would be dangerous. She is pretty smitten with me and i believe that this would make her fall head over heals with me. I would feel unfair then making a decision to cut it off 4 weeks down the line after sexual contact. I think it would really hurt her and me more. Also, physical attraction is nearly as important as emotional for me. I would feel I’m cheating myself out of what i deserve physically. I don't mean just sex per se, but the whole chemistry that comes with physical attraction.
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