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I am here seeking help. I found out about 5 months ago my boyfriend likes to dress in woman's underwear. I will give a short background of our relationship. I met him almost 5 years ago. I was a divorced mom of two older teens. I quickly moved into his home because my ex wanted to sell our home. Both of my children moved out on their own. B/F had been married 3 times to two different women and has two older teens. Match made in heaven right. This man makes me laugh and loves me with his whole heart. He takes care of me as I have now become disabled and cant work. Oh I forgot to say when I met him he told me his BFF was a girl the same age as my daughter. He met her 7 years before I met him. He worked with her and they developed a best friend relationship. Both of them had other relationships b/f g/f Never were they in a sexual relationship. Now to the present, In January I found out that he was taking more of his Adderall than prescribed. Trying to get a better "high" He was under personal stress at the time. I found out that my b/f and his bff were "sexting" with each other. She is now married and my b/f was her man of honor. I was her friend and this was such a violation to me that they would do this to me and her husband. Long story short she, myself and my b/f are no longer friends. a couple months later I was getting something out of his truck and I found some woman's sandals. I immediately thought they were "hers" and I questioned him about this. WOW I didn't get the answer I thought. He said they were his. he also showed me stockings and panties he had hidden in his truck. He told me that both of his ex wives also found out about his love of dressing in womans underwear. One ex vomited when she found out and the other just ignored it. I am trying my best to understand him and this desire of his. He has never dressed like this in front of me and I was thinking he no longer was doing this. I was putting some thing in is truck this morning and I found another pair of womans sandals. I cant tell him I saw them as he will get mad that I looked "snooped" Oh and since January when I found out about the sexting he and I fight a lot. I have never been a fighter, so its easy for him to take me down so to speak. He says horrible things to me and about me. Then the next day he is so sorry and tells me how much he loves me and don't want to lose me. I do know he loves me and will do anything and everything for me, but I just don't know anymore I don't know what to do. I love this man and I just need help.
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