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Old Aug 05, 2013, 11:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Rachel.i View Post
My oldest sister, the Narcissist/Sociopath, has really corrupted the relationship between myself and my mother. Nothing new, but my mother is 82 and there's not much time left. You'd think having stolen all my mother's money, being married and divorced six times by age 45 (my sister), my mother would realize. But no, as one of my sister's ex-husbands said to me last week, "Your mother will never believe that your sister's a chronic liar. You and I know it, but your mother is in denial and always will be." I can't even talk to my own mother without everything I say being repeated to Ms. Control Freak, and her opinion being given on what I say, and relayed back through my mother. Crazy!

Sorry. Just venting again. Seeing my pdoc Monday and it won't be too soon.
I wonder if Moms don't overcompensate for the "bad" kids. I know I feel guilty when I don't think I've done a good job of parenting... I have a girlfriend whose sister started an affair with her husband. The mother went through life thinking the "bad" sister was perfect... It was so very hard on my friend. She ended up divorcing her husband and I'm not sure anyone in the family understood...
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