Just saw the grief counselor. She agrees he needs to come with me or get his own counselor.

I will talk to him tonight. Sometimes it can be very touchy talking to him about certain things. He immediately gets defensive. I want to be sensitive because he is hurting too, but the way he has been talking to me is not acceptable.

If he refuses help I will move out even if it is temporary. My stepmother has already offered that I can stay with her. She still lives in the big house my dad and her had.

Or I might just rent a place for a week or two . If I can still find one it is Vacation season. The beach is 2 hours away and the mountains the same.

I hope I don't have too, it would be much better if he got a grief counselor.