I was 33.5 years of age when I finally escaped.

My mother was also my primary abuser, but the rest of the family wasn't guiltless.

I had to legally change my name and move away to another city.

That means you must sever contact with any and all people from your past.

Otherwise they'll be able to betray your trust to your abuser(s).

I made that mistake once and shall never make it again.

There are domestic violence centers that can help you with your transition.

Just make sure it's absolutely what you are ready and willing to do.

Sad to say it's the only way, and I wish you the best!

It isn't easy, but it is doable.