Hey everyone,

So I guess I'm just looking for some advice. I was seeing a guy for about a year and a half. We broke up for a few months during that time, I ended things, then when we got back together he was very different. Like when we were first going out he couldn't do enough for me, and really pursued me. Then when we got back together I guess he knew that I really wanted to be with him and didn't treat me well for the first two months. I stayed with him because I missed him so much when we had been apart. And he said when I was ending things the first time that I'd never find anyone who'd love me as much as he did, and that got to me after a while.

Anyway we broke up two months ago after being back together for about four months. We got into a really big argument that went on for like 3 days, and I ended it because he said some really nasty things. He was trying to get back with me for like a week and came to my sisters wedding even though we were broken up. Then he sent me a message saying he didn't want to talk to me, basically the text was saying that I'm in the wrong and haven't treated him well. And he said he wasn't going to read any texts I send back that he had to move on with his life. I obviously didn't write back but I'm really missing him again now. I saw him this weekend for the first time, we just said hey when we were passing and he had this really freaked out face on. I'm just wondering if I should text him to say hey and that I dont want us to be hating eachother. I kind of knew he'd cut contact, he's really dramatic, and he knew it would really get to me after a while. The last time we broke up he started seeing someone, I honestly think to get at me, and I'm really worried he'll do it again.

It's just such an awful way to end things, I think that's why I'm finding it so hard. I don't understand how one minute he loves me then wants nothing to do with me. Should I contact him?