It helps people who are living in domestic violence situations to get out of it.

They'll find you a place to stay ... They'll help you get the counseling you need ... They'll help you find a job ... They'll help you develop skills you need to get a job ... They'll be with you each step of the way until you are able to stand on your own.

Check your local phone directory.

I don't advise discussing it with your doctor or other family members or friends as they've already shown they'll betray your trust.

It's scary, but not as scary as what you're currently living in.

Our abusers make us totally dependent on them so they can maintain their power and control over us.

But there are ways to break away from their sadistic power trips.

I didn't know about domestic violence centers when I escaped, but I do now and I strongly believe in them and their abilities.

Best thing about them is that they will never betray your trust by revealing anything about you to your abuser(s) ... It will be all about you and your safety and well-being.

Again, just make sure it's absolutely what you want and are ready to do.