I dont know how to start a thread ... so ill just say this here. I was raped about 5 years ago and have not been able to cum since. I was reading the different advice ppl gave you for your gf and im gonna get that book someone mentioned. But i just want to know is there anyone who has been raped and stopped having orgasms because of it ... and was able to orgasm again? Basically is there any hope? My bf once said i want us to orgasm at the same time and im like ... gees dont hold your breath. But thats not how i want it to be. So If theres anyone who stopped having orgasms because of a rape was able to get an orgasm Again please tell me what you did/are doing...