Hi there, I'm new here & this is actually a repost from another area (someone suggested I post it in this forum...thanks!)

I am in a music cover band with my husband; that is how we met. I have gotten to the point that I no longer want to do this (I would like to pursue other artistic interests). I do like to perform but am no longer interested in all of the other garbage and hassle that goes with it. How do I go about extracting myself without letting my husband down? I have tried quitting in the past but have allowed myself to get roped back in. Hoping you can give me some advice; I am concerned how this will affect our relationship (and realize it most likely already is...)