So, sorry to read you are going through this. 1.5 hours is a drop in the bucket for distance. Sorry, that sounds like a lame excuse!! He shouldn't text you that he misses you, if he doesn't mean it!!
And, um, arms crossed, over the chest, after being intimate! ugh...what a J*RK!! Were you tempted to send him home, right away?! As in get the H out of my Bed?!!?