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Originally Posted by spondiferous
Looks like your new to PC, so welcome. 
There could be many reasons behind this. You're certainly not the first person your age to experience something like this, but it's just not as common to hear about it because of the 'horny teenager' stereotype. If you're still getting hard and having wet dreams then I'd say everything's fine. If you're depressed or having other issues it can totally affect the libido. And of course, the more you worry about stuff the more you stress out and nothing kills the libido like stress.
I don't really know what to say. Is it also possible that you just don't have the right stimulation? You mentioned that when you were with your online girlfriend you still got horny from time to time. But I guess bottom line, if you're worried that it might be a functional problem then I would go to the doctor. And if you've got a therapist, talk to them. It could be psychological or physical, or it could just be a phase your body is going through. I'm 34 and I've had times in my life where I have no urge or desire at all, I don't even think about sex. Sometimes it's lasted for a couple of years. But when it comes back it's stronger than ever. |
Thank you, and I was the horny teenager stereotype, and I miss being it, I want it back. Having a high libido made me feel alive, and happy. I'm like a puzzle, every part of my mind and emotions are intact, except for one part, the puzzle piece of me that makes up libido, and I wan't it back. I won't be seeing my doctor for a few months, and I don't know how to convince my parents to spend money on a therapist, I feel extremely unconfterble telling them sexual things, I'd rather tell a stranger. And I don't want to be stuck with a low libido for several years. Years go by slower for a teenager than it does for an adult, and this is hurting me emotionally.
I was hoping that if I get out of depression my libido will go back up, but in order to get out of depression I want my libido back up the way it used to be.