What are you looking for help with? Finding the right doctor?

If you suspect ADHD is the culprit, a thorough diagnosis would help you get the right treatment. You may need to find a different psychiatrist/clinic - one that specializes in ADHD treatment/evaluation. Evaluations can include series of neurological tests, history, and in some cases a brain scan (SPECT). They vary in approach, price, insurance coverage.

Treatment can include: medication, psychotherapy, and adhd coaching. It is always good to supplement meds with psychosocial help - that is help with habits, thinking, perspective of self, etc.

Some resources include:
brainplace.com
add.org

A good article about diagnosis issues can be found at
http://www.add.org/pdf/GuidingPrinciples021206Rev[1].pdf

Good luck to you.