I think I am just going to be more nit picky about telling really anyone about anything I do as far as sexually goes from here on out.

I would love sit them down and talk to them the issue is they will bring up the "we are not dating and we not going to date were only sexual" which I personally think both of them are lying to them selves and to me that there are deeper feelings then that.
But I can't just make them say that they have to do it on their own so its sort of a losing battle.

I am dating other people and keeping my options open maybe some day someone will realize just how much they have been lying. We all really care for each other but omg they get on mine and theirs nerves.