Hello, I'm writing this thread because I need help in a big decision I'm
About to make in my life. I've dated my boyfriend for almost 5 years, we really don't have a lot of arguments but when we do it's always about the same thing, his mom and his family in general. Ever since I started to date him we have always had a problem with his mom. His mom doesn't like me because she says I changed her son, the problem is that when I first met him he was sort of a momma's boy, he was way to attached to his mother and I feel that she thinks I took her son away from her. She said how can he love me more than she. But I think she's crazy, a mothers love is completely different of the love I give him. It's like if she's jealous of me. In out first year of dating his mom called me and started yelling at me how she didn't like me and that I ruined her sons life and she just said so many hurtful words that just makeshift
Sad remembering. His mom always showed that she didn't like me, my boyfriend has a cousin who is dating a girl for less then 4 years and my boyfriends mom is super nice with her, she buys her Christmas gifts, birthday gifts and just treats her as if that was his sons girlfriend and it's not about the gifts or any thing trust me, but just seeing people treat you different right infront of your face is painful. My boyfriends mom LOVES her daughters ex boy friend, they only dated for less than a year and last week my boyfriends mom started crying because she misses him mean while he's a bad guy. He is a drug user and he would try to convince my boyfriends sister to sell drugs for him. He was also very rude and disrespectful to my boyfriends parents and I just don't understand how a person like that gets love from my boyfriends mom and his family? I have never in my life been rude to his mom or anyone. His cousins always have something to say about me but they all get alone with there other cousins girlfriend. Everyone pushes me aside like I'm a nobody and they do it infront of my face and it hurts. I can't be strong anymore I'm
Tired of always being the one putting up with l this . Should I just leave him ? I feel that this is hurting me Andy self esteem by being treated this way, I feel like he doesn't do anything and he doesn't try to listen to me when I explain the way I feel, should I give up ? I've been fighting for this to not effecte for the past 5 years and I just can't keep going