
Aug 06, 2013, 11:15 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2013
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Originally Posted by remainingusername55
Hi, I'm a 16 year old male and a virgin, and ever since I was 11 years old I've always had a high libido/sex drive, throughout all times of the day. My base hornyness (libido/sex drive) was always high. I assume it's always been high because I've never masturbated throughout my life (I have wet dreams, but the reason why I don't masturbate is another story, I'll save it for another forum post). A few weeks ago on the 15th of July, my libido just dropped, and has been really low ever since. My base libido is basically dead. However it would go up every now and then when talking with my online girlfriend (Shes more like an online friend with benifits). Anyway we broke up (decided to go back to just being friends) and now nothing turns me on at all. I think that made it worse, but before that my libido was already low, It just dropped for no reason on the 15th. I still get wet dreams, and in my wet dreams I can still get and feel horny like I used to. But while awake my libido is basically dead. This has put me in a depression. Girls, dirty pictures, ect don't turn me on anymore. I'm scared that my libido is going to stay low forever, if it does, I'll never be able to have/enjoy sex. If this is true my life is ruined, I feel so scared and depressed right now. I just want my old self back, my old high libido self. I don't know what's wrong with me but I want this problem solved, I don't know if this is just a temporary harmonal phase, or if somthing is wrong with me. It's been 3 weeks of having a dead libido, no sexual desire, girls don't turn me on anymore. If my libido is never going to go back to being the way it used to, then I don't want to live anymore. Imagine one day knowing that you'll never be able to enjoy/have sex and that you will die a virgin. This is really depressing me, someone please help. Please tell me that my libido will go back to normal.
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Probably just a phase. Ive also heard that if you dont masturbate eventually your libido can go own a bit, but you can always get it back. Might be hormones acting up. Stress and depression are also known to kill libido. If youve been feeling down because of your break up (or for whatever reason) then thats probably it. Itll come back, relax.
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