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Originally Posted by silver reeds
Hey, no need to apologize. Your input was very useful . I appreciate it. Yes, we both are trying to be friends. We decided that this way was best where we try not to focus on what happened. However, i don't think it's working. I guess one of us is going to have to say something like 'we need space, because it doesn't feel like a f'ship or something along those lines. I find it really hard to say this because it feels like a double rejection. I guess we should have said this right at the start, but she was adamant that we carry on talking and be 'friends'. I don't think this is working now.  Also, i have to be honest i like her personality alot and have an emotional bond, so i probably have fears of losing her as an emotional friend as much as she has fears of losing me, but in a different way now.Ugh, hate r'ships/dating etc! |
I'm glad i was of help!! You're most welcome!
Don't worry about losing her. You never completely lose someone with whom you have an emotional bond with. Cause, as cheesy as this sounds, your bond with her will last in both of your hearts, since well, it's emotional, and not physical.
One day I believe both of you will find the person you are attracted to both physically and mentally, and think of it this way, the more you don't want to lose her, to more pain you are causing for her and yourself, and trust me, the road ahead will not be pleasant if you continue like this, and the path to friendship might be too late to save. Better to have no contact, just temporarily.
And then, do some self-improvements instead of moping about it, and try to move on. I know you like her a lot, and so do I for my case, but you can't keep her waiting for you forever right?
Yeah, i hate relationships too. But hey, can't live without 'em
who knows, one day you'll wish you never said that once you find the right one. Good luck!