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Old Aug 07, 2013, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Shellyx21 View Post
She said how can he love me more than she.

he doesn't try to listen to me when I explain the way I feel, should I give up ? I've been fighting for this to not effecte for the past 5 years and I just can't keep going
She said, what, again?!

I get, when we get involved with someone, we are getting involved with them and not their family, BUT, we do get involved with their family and their family of origin issues.

You just expressed here, that he doesn't try to 'listen' to the way you feel.

Is this where you want to be, 10, 15, 20 years down the road?