Since you're being blunt, I'll take the same route. It's so much easier than dancing around words, anyway. I'm 19, and while I've only had sex with one person (a high school fling that I regret to this day), I couldn't help but notice that I enjoyed foreplay much more than actual intercourse. Perhaps part of the reason is that I'm still inexperienced, and my stamina is just not there. Yes, climaxing is a great feeling (endorphins and all) but what brings me the most pleasure is seeing that I'm pleasing the woman I'm with.

Like with anything else in life, appearance doesn't mean everything. That young Hollywood actress can be as shallow as she wants, but a good relationship is far more than skin deep: Do you make each other happy? Are you both willing to listen to and trust each other?

As far as my own preferences, I don't like women with too much makeup. To me, they come across as fake, as though they're trying to hide who they really are behind a mask. The only exception I've run across is my most recent ex, who simply enjoys putting on makeup. She's a artist, and she sees her face as yet another canvas to draw on. Her look also reflected her mood very well; on bad days her makeup was heavier and darker, and when she was feeling really good she would put on some very creative colors and designs. It all goes back to personality for me.