They only mention those things to try to calm things down so that they can start bagging on me again I hate it. From the moment I wake up to when I go to sleep sometimes all they have to say to me is you haven't done this right or you need to do that and they could either do it themselves but no they are too lazy so they push it off on someone else and then they think they have the right to complain.....I know that I do need to do some of the stuff they are saying but sometimes they are too blunt and they are so hypocritical.....They know how they say things irritates me ....probably even if they were more tactful it still would but they could at least try.....I think its stupid they only say nice things to placate me....they praise my sister all the time and she doesn't need the confidence boost that's for sure. I hate feeling bitter all the time towards them all....if I were not planning and saving for one last trip with them I would already be gone