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Originally Posted by avlady
I'm sorry for your situation, i don't know why someone would do that to another person, is he mentally ill in any sense, maybe he needs help, and is looking and it is a cry for help because of the way he treats you. About your friends, they will see what is going on, most likely, or you could talk to them and explain what's going on. They probably already see it if he's talking behind your back. You must feel lonely dealing with this, so please talk to a friend.
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This is going to sound weird, but this is how the community works in my social group. He's a more popular cosplayer - he has more famous friends than me...so people will believe him without even asking me because he's more beneficial to them to be in good standing with. And i seriously think he has abandonment issues - so i think he did like me, but was afraid, so he'd push me away and punish me because I still stayed - and then got irate when i finally did leave all "i knew she'd leave" in his head like it was my fault and not his actions that caused it. he sabotaged it on his own. Not a single person has asked my side of the story...they're still being nice to me, but there's a disconnect... should I just start telling them my side? how do I approach this without it seeming like I'm starting drama?