I do. My counselor has told me the same thing. I don't understand how an any person, after being told what you want and what you expect, especially when it's not even hard, can't do it. What mental block is there that stops them. I know his anxiety is an issue, but the counselor didn't think it was that bad. Maybe it is? I'm just at such a loss.
I find it so ironic that I just got an email this morning reminding me Aspies don't typically posses the ability to read between the lines and direct communication is really the key to making your relationship work. I find that ironic because I work hard everyday to do that. Now if I could get him to communicate with me that would be something.
Thank you Christina.
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