Susie,
(me)
Be glad this relationship wasn't a marriage of years of devotion to this unworthy man.
You have someone in your life that treats you well.

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I was in a very serious and intense relationship for about a year. It was abusive mentally and physically. The things this man did to me were just very terrible and I could fill a novel with all of the bad stories. Somehow I still loved him intensely and there were good times. He was there for me when my father passed, etc... so I was very attached to him.

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"I wanted them to be miserable like him and I had been. In my dream I really felt like I still loved him like crazy even though I do not and I know I ONLY want my boyfriend now."
(me)
I think you have intensive anger in you that is being misdirected towards this new woman. When the anger is about how this man mistreated you, and like you said when your dad died you were attached/maybe codependent with him while he let you down.

Love doesn't go away in a day or a few months neither does hate and anger.
So be patient with your emotions and keep moving forward with your new boyfriend.

Also he has been dating this new girl for a month (honeymoon period) time will reveal his true self.

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I remember in my dream that I removed her stuff and left and angry note in the cubby saying that this was a place for students only. It seems like such a stupid detail but I remember it reoccurring throughout the dream...
(me)
This could be a good idea, write a letter/not a novel summarizing your relationship. The good the bad and the emotions you feel. Highlight the positives in a light color and the negatives in a another color.
Then if you feel the need to write an angry letter, do so then release it. Then release yourself.
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I know there were a lot of details that I can not remember but there is something I specifically remember. It makes very little sense but in my dream it seemed to have great importance.
(me)
The great importance is the lessons learned. To remember how to value yourself and not to accept a person who mistreats or demeans you. Those are lessons to live by and never forget.
Let me know if this helps/Hugs,
Happiedasiy