Yes her mom also did say this....because her mom knows I am the one always driving to see her and putting the effort in last boyfriends never did like drive 5 hours to meet her parents...or go to wedding showers etc etc etc....she said no past boyfriend ever did that stuff with her and im trying to make a point of it.....she also talked about giving blowjobs to a guy she "wanted to keep around cause she liked him" but he left her...does she not like me then?...this is what I mean by "what did the other guys do that im not" do I have to become an asshole like past guys in order to get some oral returned?...and no i dont thinnk women are sexual objects...if they were I woulda had those threesomes myself...if you all think im an asshole for wanting oral in return when Im always putting it out then maybe I came to the wrong website....or maybe i need to hear from another guy ...we live an hour apart....I drive up 3 times a week to her 0....she works in an office and she admittedly doesnt do much all day....I work midnights in a labour intensive job....I relly do go the extra mile to try and make it work....but when all my effor is ignored how is any guy not supposed to feel like this......women....leave your sexual past IN THE PAST