I agree with the rest...save yourself and her the time and heartache and call it quits. You don't love her; if you did her past would not effect the way you feel about her. It seems as if you are insecure with yourself or you have a jealously problem. Maybe its time to take a break from relationships and figure out who you are as a person and what you want out of a girlfriend/wife/lady. Quit living in her past....its not getting either of you anywhere.