Everyone makes good points and I especially agree with Lux et spes. As a woman, I can say there's no faster way to turn me off and end any chance of getting sex by complaining that you're not getting enough. That really just doesn't get my motor running.

The truth is very simple. Personally, I feel you are being highly judgmental and superior, as well as sexist. But even so, if you can't accept her as she is, then there is no future in the relationship. In today's times, I doubt you will find a pure virgin, but if that's what you truly want, then that's what you should seek.

You aren't doing either one of you any favors by staying together. You cannot respect her for the person she is, and if you can't respect her, you certainly can't love her. Set her free and let her go on her way to find a man who can appreciate her for all that she is - and isn't. And set yourself free to find what you really want.