Adam, I know what feeling overwhelmed is like. I am sorry your w did that to you. Parenthood is a big decision, but now that it is reality, try not to take it out on your child. Parenting with depression is very difficult but it can be done. I have 5 kids I regret that they are all grown up (almost) and put on their own. Being a parent has been the greatest blessing in my life. My kids are the only reason that I am still here. Good luck Adam