Hello & Welcome, QueenCopper.
I imagine no therapist is good for every person or for every problem. Finding the right therapist who is both
- right for you, and
- right for your unique history/challenge
may require time. Though good therapy can involve discomfort, the therapist is ideally exists to serve and help you, not boss you.
Wishing you eventual success in locating the right professional.
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My dog
mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.