I have never made out. I have read a lot about it on here, but it still does not make sense to me. I just have had sex with people. Sure, there were situations when the guy I was with an I limited ourselves (due to being in public transit, or, because of the unstated agreement not to have full blown sex for a reason that seemed very valid then), but the idea of somehow not quite having sex on purpose just for the sake of it, and not due to having some limitations that are at least to some extent outside of our control... seems entirely bizarre to me.