I said no. My father isn't a bad person. He is just a crappy father and always has been. My mother is deceased, but he dedicated his life to taking care of her when she was chronically ill for years and years and loved her more than anything. Most men would not do what he did.
I was not abused as a child, but definitely not given enough attention. I made my own food and did my own laundry way before any child should.
My mom's sister (my aunt, of course) and my uncle (by marriage) plus two cousins live in a town near me and are all "white picket fence" happy...most of the time I CANNOT handle it. They know nothing about my anxiety/depression, and I can only deal with them in very small doses. They are very good people tho; I just have a low tolerance for them in my current state.
The rest of my family I have either not seen in a really, really long time or else some of them are extremely odd. None of them are bad people. I just don't know them at all and they live far away from me.