I have never had a crossdressing bf and am not sure that I would be able to tolerate that. I mean, I am certainly well-intentioned, but, to be completely honest, it might be hard. Not because of the gay part, but just because it is outside of the realm of standard virility. But I am trying to become much more open-minded and accepting of various things people do without hurting others, and in the course of that attempt, have developed a friendship with a cross-dressing colleague. He wears colorful pumps to work. A year ago when I first saw that, I was totally weirded out. But now I see what a wonderful, sweet, smart, etc. guy he is.