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Another thing is about what a man is doing with his life. Since I expect men to be doing something worthwhile with their lives, if they are spending too much time at the gym (outside of training for something), then the question is - why do they not have something pressingly and overwhelmingly interesting to occupy them enough so that they would NOT have so many hours for being at the gym...
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This is true. Ive dated girls that spend hours doing their hair and makeup and picking out clothes, and they
usually arnt super interesting people. At least, not to me. I dont think pop culture, magazines, clothes, makeup etc is really interesting in general.
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I interviewed a woman who seemed all OK, but her professional look (a suit), her make-up (way too much and the kind of make-up that clashes with the natural look of the face rather than accentuates, subtly, the natural look of the face, and I hate that kind of make-up with passion - I am not against all make-up, no!), her costume jewelry (uninteresting, uncreative kind of costume jewelry that you would expect to see with her formal suit and such make-up as she wore... let me explain by saying what it was NOT: not bohemian or vintage or anything worthy of note in my book - mass-produced costume jewelry yuck yuck yuck) all put me off.
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Costume jewelry? What the hell is that? Like fake pearls and cheesy green gems? That doesnt sound professional at all.
My mom is huge on judging on appearance. When she was picking out therapists for me, we went to meet so many people. She would look them up and down and, even if they were nice and seemed to be good therapists, if they were wearing the 'wrong thing' or had the 'wrong look' she dumped them. I think you can tell about personality via appearance but not
that much. It was ****ing insane.
I do use makeup and clothes to put people into categories though.
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That said, since I do get messages from younger men on OKC, and some of them have several photos such that on a couple of them I see their muscles, and on others I see their faces, and, their faces do not appear dumb at all, I say to myself: these kids are not at fault. They are fine people who might be interesting, nice, and all the rest of that. Their culture expects them to be this way, so one should not discriminate against them based on that. Imagine yourself living under that kind of pressure from mass media.
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Isnt online dating a little weird? At least at first? It kind of seems like flipping through a magazine of people to me haha.
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And then, once people find a sport that is right for them because their bodies are naturally good at that sport, they improve and refine what they got in the first place (genetically).
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Huh. Ive never heard of any of this. I guess i though people could be good at basically whatever they wanted. Guess not haha.