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I discovered my partner was e-mailing a guy up to 6 times a day while I was busy doing things to help her. I asked her to stop and believed that she did. I also asked had she had sex with this guy, or any other guy while we have been together, she said no. On her death I was cleaning up and discovered some draft e-mails. The e-mailing had been going on for 5 years, was very flirtatious toward him and lots of derogatory remarks about me. One of the draft e-mails mentioned a friend from the past but still while we were in a relationship. She wrote in the e-mail “I must have led him to believe, then I back out, what a mess”.
I now have doubts about our relationship. Should I have trusted her and believed her answers? Am I wrong to suspect sex was involved? I guess I find it hard to believe that it is possible to have a platonic affair between opposite sex friends, without sex being involved. Is it?
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