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Originally Posted by sadp8r
I feel so Inadequate as a man....always getting rejected and having to spend weekends alone because I'm "Too Nice". Found out today neighbors girlfriend is moving in with him....I know I drank last month after over 5 years sober but being clean and sober women don't like...he drinks and so does other two couples that live in building....4 apts and I'm the only single guy I ask women out all I get is O You're So Sweet,BUT I CAN'T.....They may have ended say LOSER!  |
Unfortunately, some guys go through this. We had a running gag of how many times I could get turned down in a week when I was in college. And these weren't random "Hey wanna dance?" things, I would spend weeks or months developing a relationship with a woman before asking her out.
One even physically stepped back from me when I asked her out.
So for me the solution was finding a woman that had been treated really badly by past boyfriends and had given up on relationships. It was only at that point she considered me an option.
So that's what I would offer, quit looking for the standard girl at the club or bar and find someone that's sick of regular guys, lives her own life and is her own woman.
Barflies are attracted to dung anyway, you don't need one of them. It's hard to find them, but you're better off with an independent, strong woman.