Hey Whisper.

Like you I'm still having my ex on my mind after the breakup. One thing I can suggest is that you take more time into getting to know this new girl. As you get to know her more perhaps the answers to your thoughts will be revealed. Don't rush, as I can see that you're still in the process of healing from your previous relationship. Other than that I can't really say much as I'm fairly new to this dating game myself, and yeah I think of my ex everyday as well.