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Old Aug 08, 2013, 02:07 PM
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If you don't want to break a long-standing marriage for an older couple that's been good in all aspects but not in the last few years in sexual fulfillment for one partner, isn't it ok to have a private, outside sexual relationship?

If you can afford to have an outside sex partner, who is happy in that role, and the sexual satisfaction keeps your marriage, isn't that a good outcome?
That would lead to an 'open marriage'. Whether it's OK or not, is truly subjective. It's a lifestyle for some in this world. Will there be an openness and honesty about this lifestyle?

I believe, there's literature out there, to help you sort out between you and your spouse, if this is the type of marriage, you both want, from here on out.